Today is my birthday. My husband has been gone for 315 days. 45 weeks. And this. This “holiday” is the last one he will miss. (At least for a while!).
That took the sting out of his absence I think, and I can say I had a wonderful birthday. My coworker’s spoiled me and I felt so very loved. My daughters made me cards and pictures and we enjoyed a lovely dinner tonight.
But one moment in particular stood out for me, and it was when I read a comment from my blogger friend, Jane over at 50statecanuck.com wrote. She was admiring my strength over this last year and said I was the trunk that held my family together. And it was in that moment I realized that all this while I HAVE been strong. I finally really have started to believe it. But more so, I have such gratitude for those that helped water my tree. The small handful of gardeners that made time to add sustinence to my life will be held close to my heart for a lifetime. Pic from Pinterest
So here’s to a new year, and another ring in my tree.
Cheers!
Michelle
Happy Birthday! 🙂
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Thank you!!!
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Happy birthday, so glad you had a wonderful day.
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Thanks, Anna!!!
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Happy Birthday xo
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Thank you, Angela!
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Happy birthday! So happy for you that your countdown is on and your husband will be back to you soon. I can’t imagine what it would be like to go through a year of milestones without him. You are a strong person, and I for one appreciate the sacrifices not just of our troop, but also of their families. Thank you. 💙
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Thanks so much! So often the families left behind are forgotten so I really appreciate that!!
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Enjoy your day and so many more!!
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Thanks friend!
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Happy birthday!
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Thank you, Rae!!
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Happy birthday! That’s a great thought about adding another ring to your tree 🙂
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Thanks so much, Chaitali! 🙂
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Happy Birthday!!
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Happy Birthday!!!!
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Thank you!!
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Not only are you the glue that holds you family together but look how your girls are thriving! It’s been wonderful to be a part of your world. Have a fabulous birthday
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Thank you so much, Deborah!!!!
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Love, love, love, love!! ❤❤❤❤
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Thanks for the inspiration. I was truly touched by your analogy. Sometimes someone else pointing out our strengths is just what we need. Xoxoxoxoxo
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Happy happy birthday!!!
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Thank you!!!
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Happy Birthday!
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Thanks lady!!!
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Happy Birthday! Sounds like it was a good one spent with your girls! Hope your week goes well:)
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Thanks, Lacey!!!
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We’ve been telling you all year how strong you are and I’m glad your friend was able to give you an analogy so you could see it. Stay strong, my friend. Only a few more weeks!
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Thanks, Deb. That means a lot to me.
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I’m glad you had a good birthday even if your husband was still gone.
I’ve celebrated a few by my lonesome when my husband has been out of town on business — not quite the same, but it always sucks. And I’ve always made arrangements for fun things on my birthday when he’s gone, but I know you want your loved ones with you to celebrate.
The tree analogy is so sweet — and true!
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Holidays/Birthdays alone are tough, regardless of the situation for sure! Thanks, Judy…I appreciate you!!
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That is so very sweet of her! Sometimes we don’t’ realize just how strong we’ve been until someone else notices! Glad to see you back Michelle. Take care sweetie and happy birthday!
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Thanks, Tricia! I’ve been trying to post every now and then to keep myself around a little.
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