I met a man on August 26th, 2003. Upon seeing him from across the room my breath was taken away. I whispered to my friend Kara, “I am going to marry that man.” But deep down I knew coming off a terrible divorce just 3 years prior that I had no intentions of marrying again…ever.
We talked that night, inside a smoky bar in Alaska. We danced. And we laughed…over and over. We were both stationed in Anchorage Alaska, he serving as a Paratrooper in the Army, me as a pathology technician in the Air Force. I’ll never forget that night…
After several drinks, laughter, smiles, and we shared an eye contact that couldn’t be broken. He gave me his number as the night came to a close, and I in turn gave him mine…”I don’t date though, I’m sorry…,” I proclaimed. I let him know that I was a single Mom, and my loyalty was in raising my daughter on my own. He smiled, and said he’d call me the next day.
And he called, the very next day. And every day there after…We talked for hours, yet it seemed not a minute passed by…we emailed short, sweet emails back and forth. Several days later he came over to my house, and I can honestly say it was love at first sight, all over again.
I tried to hide my emotion. I tried to tell him I couldn’t love him, or commit to him in a relationship. But just weeks later I found myself tethered to this man whom I loved and adored. He welcomed my daughter into his life, and he loved me with more passion than I can even describe. He. Loved. Me.
But I don’t date…
Six weeks into our relationship we received the news that he was due to deploy. In October. I didn’t have to wait…Please, it’s ok…he’d say repeatedly. But I knew. I KNEW. This was the man I was meant to be with for the rest of my life.
And so, on a cold and dreary morning in early October I waved farewell to the man of my dreams as he boarded a plane for Afghanistan. He didn’t think I would wait for him…Little did he know…
Because I don’t date…
But waited I did. I endured more sleepless nights than I care to admit. I lived for phone calls, emails, and watching the news for updates on his unit. His safety. We had many close calls. Many days when I cried more than I felt humanly possible. But I had my daughter to keep me strong. I did all I could to hide my sadness from her. And SHE. was my rock at the young age of four years old.
Because remember, I don’t date…I was married to my child in all honesty.
He returned home 11 months later, and on August 29th, 2004 this very same man proposed marriage to me. To which I accepted with tears in my eyes and happiness in my heart. He. Chose. Me. I was enough for this amazing man.
And now, as we are just a week before we will celebrate our 10 years of marriage, I find myself reflecting. Good times, bad times, hard ships, LIFE. But in the end, laughter and our unending love got us through it all…
Because I don’t date…
Instead, I married the man of my dreams, and I wouldn’t trade a second of our journey. We’ve been through so very much, lived in several different states, lost loved ones, broken careers, financial hardships, you name it…but at the end of the day, we have THIS. Thank you dear Brian, for always being my smile.
❤ Michelle
wow – I shared your story with my sister in London, she tears in her eyes. Enjoy this music one of my piano melody concerts. Let your life shine forever!
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So nice !
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Thank you!
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Awww, so sweet. (Happy Anniversary).
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Thanks so much!
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Oh Michelle, reading this gave me goosebumps! This is so sweet. I love that you were able to open your heart again after a bad experience. Sounds like it was worth it too. Happy anniversary to you and Brian!
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Love this! I remember you called
Me in Colorado the night he proposed! So special, 10 years! Happy anniversary to you both! Love and miss you both!
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Thank you 😘
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I’m happy for you…sounds like love ❤
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Thanks, Charissa…we’ve had our fair share of hard times, but we’ve kept pulling through, together!
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This is so very sweet. Some things are just meant to be….whether or not we date! 😀
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Hehe thanks Marcia 🙂
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Aww, I love reading the story of how you guys met!
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Thanks, Kim! Hard to believe it was over 11 years ago!
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The best love stories aren’t fiction and you’ve proved it.
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Amen, Char!
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very sweet! Happy Anniversary!! 🙂
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Thank you!
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Ok, I have tears in my eyes. This was beautiful and such a lovely story. So happy it worked so beautiful. Happy Anniversary!
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Thank you so much, Maria!
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BEAUTIFUL STORY!
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Thank you, Jill!
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Oh, Michelle… Tag, you’re it! I would like to nominate you for the One Lovely Blog Award. You are extremely deserving, as your work brings a smile to the faces of so many people. I hope you are able to accept. To view the rules and the logo to display, please see my blog: https://amapofcalifornia.wordpress.com/2014/11/24/one-lovely-blog-award/ Thanks!
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Thanks for the nomination! I’ve tried participating in these several times, without much luck. I truly appreciate the thought, though! Thank you!
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That is so cool! 🙂
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Thank you, Kev!
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Congratulations on the anniversary and the beautiful relationship.
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Thank you!!
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